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01-16-2008 12:30 AM |
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Originally Posted by Jess
(Post 87776)
which is why I don't understand why you're saying that Lili was not mature then, in my eyes she's always been more mature for her age.
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I agree, but the qualifier is important. An 18-year-old girl who's mature for her age is still very young. Let's just say that at 18 she wasn't a mess, which is pretty good for 18. :D
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However, all that said. She does not look more mature. The way she's dressing does not help her look more mature at all, her hair, and so on and so forth. ;)
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I don't see anything wrong with either her clothes or her hairstyle. What are you talking about? Can you be more specific? Maybe it's just a difference in taste.
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I didn't want to say this, but she also lost weight around her derrier and thighs. So physically she doesn't look more mature.
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LOL OK, we're using different definitions here. Actually, though, I can't see that much if any she's thinner now than she was in 2003. Thinner than when she was pregnant, sure.
But I was referring to the expressions on her face and the way she holds herself. She's 23 -- there's no sense in expecting her to look middle-aged! Or even like she's in her 30s! So everything I'm talking about is a mental attribute that has a physical impact.
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If you want more proof, I've actually done some tests with people that don't know her. Do you want to know the results ?
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It might be interesting, but I'll tell you in advance I would simply write off such opinions as going purely by superficial perceptions. Physically, I can see hardly any difference at all between her appearance now and when she was 18. But mentally, and in the impact of her mind on how she holds herself, how she presents herself, the difference is huge.
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