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Originally Posted by Tomtentp
Please correct me if im wrong.
You just see her as a normal good person that you could consider being a friend with, nothing more. And the music is good but you don't listen to it too often.
Why are you active on a fansite about her then?
Do you join all pretty female artists fansites whom you like the music of?
I think theres more than that, I think she is more than that.
Yes I feel happy when I watch a video of her, or when I see a cute picture of her. But I wouldn't consider that love, not the severe kind of love anyway. Right now I feel a great urge of supporting her since I think she is a great rolemodel and for the happiness she have given me.
If you are to become someones friend, it should happen naturally.
That's all im saying.
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Here is another thought:Why correct an opinion? And if it is possibly true, why even think of correcting it until theres further proof? The thing your talking about is attraction. People on this site mix music and attraction too easily. Thats also the case with other singers and movie stars, and maybe even models, but with models, its actually about the looks. I am a fan of Il Divo, Johnny Cash, Alizée, tennis, fencing, and poking hospital patients with sticks. While I'm not as devoted to the other forums as I am to this one, I visit once in a while. Why? Because I like the people and I want to know whats going on currently. Not because im attracted to Johnny Cash....well, at least not that you know of
People join forums because they can find conversation on the sites. People chat online because others cant judge them by looks, only words. While this has a downside with unwise and possibly dumb people spamming insults, it cant hurt because they cant do it personally. (unless your a person with very weak characteristics and gets angry anyway) But back to what I'm saying. You don't have to like too much about a certain thing to actually join the fansite. Just enough that you care. And yes, for all you other goofballs, this means you can join the fansite of every single thing you like. Even if you have a thousand of them.