Aaronius, in that way, Alizée IS keeping you out of trouble. Because, basically, if you mess with women, you're gonna find trouble 999,999 times out of a million. But keep your standards set this high, and you'll be sure to be safe for a long time.
No, I'm not saying you should change your approach. Sometimes I think the monks and ascetics were right all along. But you might want to reread Rictor's words above, too. Including how "a lot of the women we meet just plain suck.." (howlingly funny, but too true). Mostly, I'd advise that time is on your side. Take it. Use it.