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Originally Posted by Shepherd
This is a subject I have beat my brains out over. It makes no sense to become enamored with a woman there is no possibility of having a relationship with. To do so is a form of insanity. What we are attracted to may not even exist. We have no way to know who she really is. All we see is her public persona: that which she chooses to show us. Whatever we think of her is our own invention. That it should dominate our lives is crazy.
It's hard to say Alizee is the most physically attractive woman. There are untold numbers of beautiful women, and how do you measure one gorgeous woman over another. Their qualities are all different. I see women all the time who are more beautiful than Alizee, but I have no interest in them. There is something undefinable about her that goes beyond the physical. She stands out. Why? It's not--strictly speaking--the woman herself, but the eye of the beholder. For me, Alizee is "je ne sais quoi." She adds a richness to my life that I'm not willing to surrender.
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Good post.
I too have repeatedly given myself "sanity checks" over the years since this woman came into my life. I think by doing so we prove ourselves sane, because the truly insane wouldn't question their own sanity!
She may represent an ideal that perhaps does not exist in real life, but we want. What we see of her on her videos, or read of her, might be a result of brilliant acting on her part. Perhaps what we see is partially who she really is. Perhaps she is pretty close behind the scenes as she is on camera. At the end of the day, does it really matter? She is obviously fulfilling some need we have that we cannot quite put a finger on.
The expression "getting bit by the Lili Bug" has been tossed around for quite some time, but it's a real thing. How does one explain it? Does Taylor Swift slay men's hearts like Alizee? Taylor Swift is gorgeous and is great to look at, but beyond her looks, she means nothing to me.
The best way I can explain the Lili Bug phenomenon is the scene from The Godfather, where Michael Corleone is exiled in Sicily for a while. He is walking in the countryside when he crosses a group of women and schoolchildren, and suddenly has eye contact with one of the women, Appolonia. Michael just stands there, stunned and speechless. One of the men with him comments that he got hit by "the thunderbolt". Maybe this explains everything
The first 30 seconds of this clip:
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Originally Posted by Scruffydog777
I tend to think a big reason for her unique beauty is because it's a Corsican beauty.
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This might have some merit to it. With all the hair styles and colors that she has tried, I like her the best when she has her natural black hair.