I have a sneaking suspision as to who you got the email from Jess
In general it's easy on the internet and on internet forums to say whatever you want, in whatever way you want to anyone.
The whole annonimity of it leads to that, unfortunately. Another forum i belong to is full of abuse, sarcasm and ignorance. People can get away with it and i think it's a very sad thing?
I've always thought and believe that this forum is different. In all my time here i've only had a slight 'fall out' with one person (and it was resolved in a friendly manner). It's a fantastic forum.
Everyone should act and speak here like they (should) do in real life with a bit of respect for everyone, even if you don't agree with what someone else has stated.
Generally, i think we do?