Thanks for the welcome; I wish I'd discovered her (and thus this site) at a slightly happier time for you all. It's a bit of a downer to see everyone so upset; I'm still in the "newfound love" stage, all puppy-dogs and sunny days and am thus more interested in talking about her like a lovesick schoolboy smitten with her beguiling charms, than armchair-quarterbacking her apparent missteps
Ah well, maybe after things calm down.
Thanks again for the welcome.