Should she not dress very sexy?

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Originally Posted by tbailey

i liked her performance
she seemed much more confident than compared to Moscow
maybe b/c she was back in France

i would change the dress though
again with the baggy dresses - wear something tight
show off what god gave you

Originally Posted by heyamigo

it's fine if she doesn't want to show the stomach but this is taking it kind of extreme don't you think?



it looks like something a toddler wears but in adult size.

I don't think it's that bad, I still think she's cute and sexy in that outfit. I liked the one with stars she wore in Mexico when I very first saw it. But as my reply to this became long and more involved I realized I should post it elsewhere.

Well, at least she still looks cute and sexy in that outfit even if it has come to the point we're thinking ok girl, we know you have a beautiful body and many of us are men and well, you know, help a brother out. Uh, ok that last part just sounded weird but you know what I mean. Get Manzetti to supervise these appearances.

So maybe she feels like it could come to the point where she is going to dress up sexy as part of her job, figuring she can attract more people her way if she does that. Maybe that just really doesn't feel right to her and maybe she doesn't want to get to the point where what she is doing is riding on that and she gets compared to other sexy women and she might as well be doing playboy. Well, ok, that reaction would be an over-reaction, but generally speaking I think there's a little of that here and it is a little bit valid. So, maybe that's why she's not pursuing a campaign of trying to look sexy and I would agree with that, but at the same time: put on something that shows yourself off more. You're willing to wear high heels all the time, how about something a little slinky sometimes?

Ok, I guess we have to realize that she's going to do what feels right to her (like us discussing it is going to change anything anyway). If she feels like dressing up in something sexy, she will. She has. If she likes something else, she'll wear that. I mean, it's like you see her about to go on stage and you say, hold up, you can't wear that. And she's like, what do you mean, I like this. And you're like, no no, you need to wear something slinky and sexy. And she's like, no, I don't feel like wearing that. And you're like, do it anyway, what's the problem? And she's like screw you I said I don't feel like it! She doesn't want to do that with herself or anyone else.

I agree she shouldn't have to over-think it like I've just done above or do what feels uncomfortable, but yeah, a little something more would be nice. I hope she never looses her "cuteness" though. Not that every outfit should be one way or another.

To my posting question though: frankly, at this point if she actually came up on stage in something like that JEAM outfit, I'd be freaking stunned that she did it, but if she could pull it off, I think I'd like it. I never found anything wrong with it. I mean, she was 18. And even now if she has the body for it... (I'd have to see it to judge that) Is there really something wrong with doing it? Some might say that she's created the expectation that it's out of her character to do it. Does that mean she shouldn't? I don't want to feel like she's suddenly changing her character and not being genuine (what ever that means), but I think if I saw her like that and looked confused, she could just give me a certain confident and amused look and she could instantly convince me that it's cool. Although, I wouldn't look confused, just stunned.