Go Back   Alizée America Forum > Other Subjects > Off Topic

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #11  
Old 08-30-2016, 11:45 PM
Un-rêve's Avatar
Un-rêve Un-rêve is offline
Alizée dreamer
 
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: middle of everywhere
Posts: 1,735
Un-rêve is on a distinguished road
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Merci Alizée View Post
Recently one of my friend told me that I'm passive aggressive. I didn't notice i earlier. But once she mentioned it, I have been thinking about it.

I wonder at what point it goes overboard.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Merci Alizée View Post
The incident which I mentioned in OP happened when I almost ruined a friend's birthday with my cold behavior just because I didn't like something earlier and carried on disappointment till that day. That's when I was labelled as passive aggressive guy
MA we all get angry and frustrated and sad at times with situations and there is nothing wrong with that, but I know you are a good person who never assumes anything. You even told me that once and it made me see that you don't judge anyone or anything before seeing the facts.

Anyway I think you will be ok.. and sometimes I feel if I could step out and be someone else I would wanna be you!


__________________

Alizée, Balayent les maux de cœur
Reply With Quote
  #12  
Old 09-11-2016, 07:24 PM
alizeefan alizeefan is offline
Оле Оле
 
Join Date: Aug 2010
Posts: 479
alizeefan is on a distinguished road
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Ray4AJ View Post
Someone politely told me that as well. I didn't know what it meant but I looked it up. I do it all the time. That's why I had to stop posting opinions on the forum and now I only post facts. (Mostly.) I'm more interested in retaining members here than pushing them away, so I don't tell them when they are wrong anymore.

Lol, this was probably passive aggressive too.

I don't know when it goes overboard. Can it?
Usually as much as how you think things are the opposite is of equal value . More often than not , that is what we think people are thinking is never the thoughts . i doubt you or anyone has pushed away anybody as a matter of fact for those who may interact in any way come and go by their own accord . Those who may argue or we disagree with that is in fact wouldn't drive them away but be the reason they are here to interact .

Anyways nothing wrong with expressing your opinions and telling someone you think they are wrong just be open to considering opposing opinions or don't expect that respect to be returned . So no imho there is no overboard , it's all perspective so live in the light and enjoy your night.
Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 05:03 AM.