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Althou I do support the 'speaking with grace' thing. This is a forum dedicated to Alizée, to talk about her bad sides just damage the picture I was talking about. We are here because we have an idol, someone we look up to in many diffrent ways. There is no need to dwell in small human flaws that she might possess, everyone have these. Being a friend of Alizée? Ofcourse I wouldn't say no to that, but the idea is kind of distant to me. First of all the national and language barrier, we are from diffrent worlds, for frendiship that shouldn't be a problem ofcourse. But then for the reason. I am a fan of Alizée. I adore her in so many ways. I think this could be a problem for a working friendship, I think this would make the relationship somewhat awkward. It's almost like being in love with a freind of the opposite sex when your friend doesn't feel the same. It makes the friendship complicated. If I were to become a friend of Alizée, I would had wanted it to happen naturally. For me to travel to france, move somewhere close to Alizée, get her to be my friend. That idea is very alien to me. And if I can't be her friend, I rather see her as this perfect goddess instead, even if she's not. Quote:
I will never find the true answer because the human mind is too complex for me to understand, but that won't stop my curiousity.
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The other compartment comes from my perception of who she is as a person. This is completely separate from Alizée the performer. I just like her. I think she's a nice person, and a smart person, which for me is just as important. I like to tell her so, and I do, because I know it will make her feel good. But at the same time, I also can't resist teasing her a bit, precisely because I know that a lot of other people are gushing, "Oh, you're so beautiful, you're so perfect, can I kiss the ground you walk on? If I touch you I'll never wash my hands again. Merely lower yourself to smile at me and my heart will stop, but I'll die happy." I actually feel like I am her friend. Whether she's my friend is another question. But that's for her to figure out. I just do what my heart says.
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Eh, not really. Though it has opened my eyes to some of the goals one can set and achieve. I guess that's where she's upped the bar for me
(Of course it does help she's extremely beautiful )
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Please correct me if im wrong.
You just see her as a normal good person that you could consider being a friend with, nothing more. And the music is good but you don't listen to it too often. Why are you active on a fansite about her then? Do you join all pretty female artists fansites whom you like the music of? I think theres more than that, I think she is more than that. I wouldn't say im in love with her, it's not that I can't stand a day without seeing her or that I constantly think of her. Yes I feel happy when I watch a video of her, or when I see a cute picture of her. But I wouldn't consider that love, not the severe kind of love anyway. Right now I feel a great urge of supporting her since I think she is a great rolemodel and for the happiness she have given me. I had a feeling that my love vs friend example would get misunderstood. I was trying to explain the awkwardness of the reasons for me wanting to be her friend with that example. The whole "Hi, I have seen every video and read everything about you and think you'r a great person, do you want to be my friend?" thing. If you are to become someones friend, it should happen naturally. That's all im saying.
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If you don't like it, nuke it
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I think that it plays a very big role in your music taste in general, along with many other factors about how you experience to artist. The music can be superb but the fact that it's, for example, britney spears performing the music can drastically change your feelings towards it (in a negative way in this case). Before, I was always rejecting 'mainstream' music, and it really worked. The music became bad in my ears even thou I might had liked it if I'd given it a chance. As of lately I have done my very best to put these factors aside, and listen to the music itself instead. I don't like every Alizée song. I do like many of LB's composites for other artists such as Mylène, but not everything. But im sure my 'love' for Alizée have helped enhancing my feelings for many of her songs. Attraction is not the word I would use to describe my feelings for Alizée. Ofcourse im attracted to her, im not trying to deny that. But there is something above the ordinary, something that I have tried to describe for about a gogoplexian times by now. I have this great respect for what she are and what she does, althou I hate to use the word respect as it's too harsh and cold for this context. If it's between love and attraction, I'll go with love. Quote:
This isn't the only forum im a member of either, but it's the only fansite of this magnitude im active in. There are fansites that praise their idols as gods literally, but I think the users of such forums are either mentally instable or too young to know better. Alizée fans got the same high motivation without going nuts, and that's what amazes me (yeah that was a compliment to you guys ). Im not a fan-guy, im not a fan of anything really, but somehow she managed to snare me, im only trying to find out how! Btw, does the 'poking hospital patients with sticks' thing have a fansite? Nevermind, I don't wanna know
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