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Obsession, Stalking, Seriousness.....
I recently read a great novel titled "XO" by Jeffery Deaver. And it made me think, how far is to far? When we follow a certain singer/popstar, and you gain that extra relationship with them, as in Emails/Facebook/Twitter, at what point does it lead to stalking much less obsession? We all love Alizee, but how far can we go before it is considered Stalking or Obsession...
This book raises alot of questions, namely the way a Stalker lives his/her life, how they think, and how they act. For the moment, lets discuss the life of a stalker and find out if we would really go that far regarding Alizee. (Please, keep this thread professional) Thanks, MZ
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Following her on twitter and Facebook is one thing. When you start sending letters, Emails, presents to her home, walking her street hoping to meet her and hanging out at places she goes like the dance studio then you have gone way over the line.
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All the other stuff you listed is definitely over the line.
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This is an interesting topic and I'm looking forward to seeing some of the replies I am aware that here in the UK plenty of women go to nightclubs where they know that male 'celebrities' will be - eg premiership footballers etc - hoping to get picked up by them. That seems quite a predatory thing to do IMO but seems to be socially 'acceptable'
So the question of "how far is too far" is very interesting. I'm going to spend some time thinking about this and then reply more fully but in the meantime I suppose if you were to set up something like this near her home it would be ok wouldn't it? |
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It is funny how a man trying to spot a female singer from distance can be considered as a stalker, while a woman trying to sneak in the hotel bedroom of a male singer, writing letters to him talking about sexual fantasies and "wanting babies" with him,etc... it is considered normal fan stuff.
Meh.
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As one who has been stalked I can speak from experience. I am not referring to paparazzi, I am talking about the real nut jobs. Seeking a person out is cute and flattering but, as soon as I say 'Stop!', anything that happens after that is harassment. There is no hard line to go by. You have to trust your instincts. Anytime you feel that your property or life could be threatened, that is the point of harassment. I have had thousands of cards, letters, gifts and even proposals of marriage over the years. Most of them were quite nice but a few were very disturbing. I have been approached by people asking for autographs or pose with them for pictures while I was in a restaurant, movie theater, shopping center or even the grocery store. One time I was approached by a man who serenaded me in the parking lot outside a studio. lol I have had flashers, perverts, men who have threatened to kill them selves if I refused to go on a date with them. There have been men who approached me and asked if they could kiss and worship my feet. (weird) There have been men who have slept in their cars outside of my house and then follow me when I would leave.
I can sympathize with Lili. Even more so since she has a daughter to protect. It does make me happy when I see her pose for pictures with a fan or a group of fans. Hey, that gives me an idea. On the next album autograph session for Alizee America, maybe you can request a group shot with her. |
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Oh you're bad.
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Well I'm not as crazy about her as I once was.. I don't even have any intentions of going to any future autograph sessions she does because I just don't feel the need to. Nonetheless there will always be a special place in my heart for her.
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Still she f**ks with my mind, a lot. Edit: Quote:
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It's OK! C'est la vie!
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